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Everything a wrestling family needs — especially if this is your first season.

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Online Parents Meeting

Can't make the in-person meeting? Walk through the Earlham Youth Wrestling presentation on your own time.

Gear

Singlet Care

Singlets are 90% poly / 10% Lycra and must be returned at the end of the season.

Use

  • Singlets are for tournaments only
  • Practice: tucked-in shirt and shorts with no zippers
  • Wear shorts over the singlet between matches to prevent fraying

Wash

  • Machine wash separately in cold water
  • Mild, non-phosphorous detergent
  • No chlorine bleach — it fades color and weakens fabric
  • No hot water, no dryer — hang dry

Protect & Return

  • Keep away from Velcro on headgear and rough shoelaces
  • Store separately from equipment
  • Return your singlet at season's end
Learn the Sport

Terms & Concepts

The Triangle
Three roles in youth sports: the child (performer), the coach (leader), and the parent (support system). Each has distinct responsibilities in an athlete's development.
The Child's Role
"The child is the performer." Give best effort, internalize the spirit of competition, and learn the fundamentals.
The Coach's Role
"The coach is the leader of the team — period." Teach fundamentals, communicate with parents, share a coaching philosophy, and accept feedback.
The Parent's Role
"The parent is the support system for both child and coach — in that order." Transportation, encouragement, supporting the coach's vision, and raising concerns appropriately.
Earlham Wrestling Culture
Wrestler retention, skill development, a love of the sport, life skills, a developmental approach to practice, and building for future success.
Wrestling Styles
Folkstyle, Freestyle, and Greco-Roman — each with its own rules and techniques.
TrackWrestling
The online platform used for tournament registration, brackets, results, and records.
Bracket Types
Tournament formats including round-robin, 8-man, and 16-man brackets.
Earlham Wrestling Club

Code of Conduct

Wrestling teaches toughness, discipline, and respect. Our conduct — on the mat, in the stands, and in the community — builds our club’s reputation and sets the example for the next group of Cardinals. These expectations apply to every wrestler and every family in the Earlham Wrestling Club.

Wrestlers · In the Room

Practice is where champions are made.

  1. Be on time and ready to go — shoes on, water bottle, and a good attitude.
  2. Listen when coaches are talking. Eyes up, mouths closed.
  3. Be a good practice partner. Go hard, but always wrestle safe and under control.
  4. Respect every coach, teammate, and parent volunteer.
  5. Take care of the room — shoes off the mats, trash picked up, gear put away.
  6. Never quit on a drill, a match, or yourself.
  7. Keep your hands to yourself off the mat. No horseplay, bullying, or teasing.
  8. Ask a coach when you are unsure what to do.

Wrestlers · At Tournaments

How we compete says more than the score.

  1. Shake your opponent’s hand and their coach’s hand — win or lose.
  2. Respect the referee. Officials make the calls; we never argue them.
  3. Win with class and lose with dignity. No throwing headgear, slamming doors, or pouting.
  4. Always see a coach after every match.
  5. Stay with your team and know where your next match is.
  6. Cheer for your teammates when you are not wrestling.
  7. Clean up our team area before we leave.

Representing Our Club

Our identity is that of an Earlham wrestler.

  1. When you wear Cardinal red, you represent Earlham — at the gym, in the stands, and online.
  2. Wear club gear with pride and keep it clean.
  3. Be polite to host schools, tournament workers, and other teams.
  4. Treat every gym like our home gym — leave it better than we found it.
  5. Be a good teammate at school and in the community, not just on the mat.
  6. Post nothing online that you would not want your coach or parents to see.
  7. Help younger wrestlers. Someone helped you, too.

Parents & Families

You are part of the team, too.

  1. Let the coaches coach. Cheer loudly for effort — leave technique and strategy to the corner.
  2. Never yell at, argue with, or approach a referee, opponent, or another team’s coach or parents.
  3. Keep it positive. Kids remember the car ride home more than the match.
  4. Bring concerns to a coach privately — not at the mat, not in front of wrestlers, and not on social media.
  5. Get your wrestler to practice and tournaments on time, registered, and at the right weight.
  6. Model the sportsmanship you want your child to show.
  7. Volunteer when you can. Our club runs on families pitching in.

If Expectations Aren’t Met

Most issues are handled with a quick conversation between a coach and the wrestler. Repeated or serious problems — for a wrestler or a parent — will be addressed by the coaching staff and the club board, and may result in sitting out part of practice, missing a tournament, or being asked to leave an event. Our goal is always to teach, not to punish.

Questions? Email earlhamwrestling@gmail.com or talk to any club coach.