Parent Hub
Everything a wrestling family needs — especially if this is your first season.
Online Parents Meeting
Can't make the in-person meeting? Walk through the Earlham Youth Wrestling presentation on your own time.
Singlet Care
Singlets are 90% poly / 10% Lycra and must be returned at the end of the season.
Use
- Singlets are for tournaments only
- Practice: tucked-in shirt and shorts with no zippers
- Wear shorts over the singlet between matches to prevent fraying
Wash
- Machine wash separately in cold water
- Mild, non-phosphorous detergent
- No chlorine bleach — it fades color and weakens fabric
- No hot water, no dryer — hang dry
Protect & Return
- Keep away from Velcro on headgear and rough shoelaces
- Store separately from equipment
- Return your singlet at season's end
Terms & Concepts
- The Triangle
- Three roles in youth sports: the child (performer), the coach (leader), and the parent (support system). Each has distinct responsibilities in an athlete's development.
- The Child's Role
- "The child is the performer." Give best effort, internalize the spirit of competition, and learn the fundamentals.
- The Coach's Role
- "The coach is the leader of the team — period." Teach fundamentals, communicate with parents, share a coaching philosophy, and accept feedback.
- The Parent's Role
- "The parent is the support system for both child and coach — in that order." Transportation, encouragement, supporting the coach's vision, and raising concerns appropriately.
- Earlham Wrestling Culture
- Wrestler retention, skill development, a love of the sport, life skills, a developmental approach to practice, and building for future success.
- Wrestling Styles
- Folkstyle, Freestyle, and Greco-Roman — each with its own rules and techniques.
- TrackWrestling
- The online platform used for tournament registration, brackets, results, and records.
- Bracket Types
- Tournament formats including round-robin, 8-man, and 16-man brackets.
Code of Conduct
Wrestling teaches toughness, discipline, and respect. Our conduct — on the mat, in the stands, and in the community — builds our club’s reputation and sets the example for the next group of Cardinals. These expectations apply to every wrestler and every family in the Earlham Wrestling Club.
Wrestlers · In the Room
Practice is where champions are made.
- Be on time and ready to go — shoes on, water bottle, and a good attitude.
- Listen when coaches are talking. Eyes up, mouths closed.
- Be a good practice partner. Go hard, but always wrestle safe and under control.
- Respect every coach, teammate, and parent volunteer.
- Take care of the room — shoes off the mats, trash picked up, gear put away.
- Never quit on a drill, a match, or yourself.
- Keep your hands to yourself off the mat. No horseplay, bullying, or teasing.
- Ask a coach when you are unsure what to do.
Wrestlers · At Tournaments
How we compete says more than the score.
- Shake your opponent’s hand and their coach’s hand — win or lose.
- Respect the referee. Officials make the calls; we never argue them.
- Win with class and lose with dignity. No throwing headgear, slamming doors, or pouting.
- Always see a coach after every match.
- Stay with your team and know where your next match is.
- Cheer for your teammates when you are not wrestling.
- Clean up our team area before we leave.
Representing Our Club
Our identity is that of an Earlham wrestler.
- When you wear Cardinal red, you represent Earlham — at the gym, in the stands, and online.
- Wear club gear with pride and keep it clean.
- Be polite to host schools, tournament workers, and other teams.
- Treat every gym like our home gym — leave it better than we found it.
- Be a good teammate at school and in the community, not just on the mat.
- Post nothing online that you would not want your coach or parents to see.
- Help younger wrestlers. Someone helped you, too.
Parents & Families
You are part of the team, too.
- Let the coaches coach. Cheer loudly for effort — leave technique and strategy to the corner.
- Never yell at, argue with, or approach a referee, opponent, or another team’s coach or parents.
- Keep it positive. Kids remember the car ride home more than the match.
- Bring concerns to a coach privately — not at the mat, not in front of wrestlers, and not on social media.
- Get your wrestler to practice and tournaments on time, registered, and at the right weight.
- Model the sportsmanship you want your child to show.
- Volunteer when you can. Our club runs on families pitching in.
If Expectations Aren’t Met
Most issues are handled with a quick conversation between a coach and the wrestler. Repeated or serious problems — for a wrestler or a parent — will be addressed by the coaching staff and the club board, and may result in sitting out part of practice, missing a tournament, or being asked to leave an event. Our goal is always to teach, not to punish.
Questions? Email earlhamwrestling@gmail.com or talk to any club coach.